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10.
Take your time. Don't rush into a new relationship as soon as someone shows an
interest in you. There are many potential matches out there for you -- you can
afford to be choosy.
9.
Take care not to make your online profile too revealing. Do not pinpoint your
location or other identifying information, and avoid appearing too provocative.
8.
Do some research. Ask for references. Verify details such as employment and
education, or even do a background check. If it sounds too good to be true, it
probably is.
7.
Protect your privacy. Never give out personal information in your profile or in
your photo. Use a free email account such as Yahoo or Hotmail. Consider using a
prepaid cellular phone for anonymity, rather than your home phone or regular
cell phone.
6.
Ask questions. The most rewarding relationships are based on friendship and
common interests, not just mutual attraction. Discuss your favorite hobbies,
interests and activities. Find things you can enjoy together.
5.
Be honest and straightforward. A lasting relationship must be based on mutual
trust and respect. Don't sell yourself short, but don't make extravagant claims
if you can't back them up with fact.
4.
If the facts don't add up or if your prospective date seems evasive about
important details, call off the date.
3.
Tell a friend. Before meeting someone offline for the first time, tell a trusted
friend or relative who you're seeing, what you're doing, where you're going, and
when you expect to be back.
2.
Avoid risky situations. Your first date should be in a public place with plenty
of other people around. If you drink, avoid overindulging because it can impair
your judgment. Provide your own transportation -- don't depend on your date to
get you home if the meeting does not work out.
1.
Use common sense. If you get a bad feeling about the situation before or
during the date, call it off.
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